It's
been a while since I've written here. I guess I don't have too much more to
say. I am well settled into my sober life and well settled into my lovely new
home. Getting prepared for our first Christmas here and looking forward to a
quiet and simple one without too much hype. I want to make Christmas far more
about the connection and togetherness of family than about contributing to the
endless unnessessary consumerism and waste that will mainly end up as landfill
all over the world, contributing to the rapid destruction of our planet. My
sister put on a lovely pre Christmas lunch for our other sister and one brother
and me the other day, and it was so nice to spend that time together and eat
special food and talk and laugh and share what's going on in our worlds. I loved
that it wasn't about gifts. It is good that we have mostly let that part of it
go. I'm looking forward to spending a relaxing Christmas day with my children and their partners. I haven't quite let the gift part of it go in their case, they'd probably shoot me!
I've
been busy over here the last few months in the gardens, with help of course,
creating a San Pedro cacti garden by transplanting many large ones from a
little rental house I have in the city. They are in a big 33 metre planter at
the base of the retaining wall, and I've planted a variety of interesting succulents
at their base. The cacti seem to be thriving and have got new bits already
sprouting forth all over the place and nearly all of them are budding up ready
to flower, and it looks like those flowers will be blooming any day. I've been
bordering other gardens with rocks, some from my garden in the city and some
from the Duvauchelles quarry, and had a watering system installed which is a
godsend. I have to be careful how much water I use as it is a restricted daily
amount. I just realised how I sound like a boring old lady talking about her
garden. Perhaps I am. I have never created one from scratch before. It was at
first absolutely daunting and I completely doubted my ability to achieve it.
But I am liking what I've created and I hope it will fulfil my vision of what
it might look like in a few years. Simplicity is the key for me, gentle grasses
billowing in the breeze, some flaxes, casual, easy, hopefully independent one
day!
How
I feel is mostly quite at peace. It's lovely. Being here has changed how I
approach my life. It has made me appreciate my time more and use it more
wisely. It has helped me to live in the moment more. If it is a beautiful still
day outside, it is suddenly not urgent to be at my desk, that can wait, while I
take a glass of cold water out onto the deck and sit a while appreciating the
beauty of the nature around me, being truly grateful for what I have here, and
for the courage I found to embark upon it, and for my son whom I couldn't have
done it without, and for my daughter who lights me up with her visits.
My
business has got a new momentum of it's own too. It is going well. My dear
friend Dave has left, he is nearly 76. I panicked, of course, and sold about
five caravans as a knee jerk reaction and a fear that I could not do this
without him. All that did was give me a pocket full of money with which to
start my next project, without taking anything much away from my income as they
are never all rented at once. By a chance conversation with Gloria, I have now
got a fabulous new maintenance man, Nick, who is very experienced, honest,
enthusiastic and capable, and loves his new job. So all is well there. However,
I am very saddened to have news from Dave two days ago that he has had a heart
attack and is in hospital. Then last night, news that my delivery man of many
years, John, who left about 6 months ago, has had a stroke and is a bit laid up
and wobbly with that. I am shocked, and not sure how to feel about it. Did they
stay too long? or is that when they left things started packing up? I suspect
the latter and have told them both when they are recovered they'd better come
back to work! I’ve loved having these fabulous men in their seventies work for
me the last 5 or 6 years, their knowledge and experience has been invaluable,
and their humour has always brightened my days.
Early
in the new year a new project begins, the total renovation of my humble but
gorgeous wee home in Diamond Harbour, that is sadly cracked and broken still, from
all the earthquakes. I got a fairly decent pay out to fix it up but it all got
sucked up into this build, so I have to finance it myself now. I've got a good
team on board and feel quite excited. It is all part of my master plan, and
will probably be sold to help pay for this home.
I am
still loving waking up each day feeling alive and happy and content and ready
to achieve good things. I find continual clarity of mind the most under-rated
human condition of all, I think. As when you don't have it you don't know what
you are missing, or that you are missing anything at all, let alone something vital and wonderful.
This
week I passed the three and half year mark since I kicked the booze to the
curb.
I
can't say I have any regrets. I have just one life, one body, one heart, one mind,
and one soul.
I am
going to treat my body, my heart, mind and soul as the precious gifts
that they are.
I hope to do this always.
That all sounds lovely. Building a house. Designing a garden. Enjoying your business.
ReplyDeleteI hope your friends recover quickly.
Merry Christmas!
Anne
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Thank you for this information. Not only will it help me prepare better but it has certainly given me more confidence. Much appreciated!
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